The STOP Process - Q & A Part 3 - Technique

  1. Should we keep hands in gesture?
  2. Can we drop the gesture when more familiar with doing?
  3. Why is it important not to be aggressive/hard?
  4. How do you remember the steps?
  5. Do you need to name the pattern you are stopping?
  6. Should we restart if another pattern comes in during the process?
  7. Should we bring up patterns to practice stopping?
  8. Should we replace with a new thought?
  9. What if the thought still needs action?
  10. How long do you focus on your breath/body afterwards?
  11. How many times a day should you do it?
  12. How we use to change responses to triggers?
  13. Is it helpful to include some self reassuring dialogue afterwards?
  14. Once we have stopped, how do we then know how much activity we should be doing? 
  15. How to distinguish between real problem-solving and energy depleting patterns? 


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